Looking Fresh to Impress

Guys, this issue is something that is obvious but goes overlooked so frequently and can cause damage to your game with women. Its being fresh. Yeah thats a no brainer right? Some guys forget and look  like a joke and then wonder why they never get any women.

Its easy. Make sure that you are yourself but make sure that you look good. All ladies love guys with three qualities. Smell good, be well groomed, and dress well.

Here are a couple links that will help you gain and maintain a good appearance.

The links below are blogs all about mens fashion

http://www.dapperlou.com/
http://tsbmen.com/

This next link is to Nordstrom all about mens cologne and grooming.

http://shop.nordstrom.com/c/cologne?origin=fashionresultspreview

The point i'm trying to get across is simple, no matter if you're a great guy on the inside, if your appearance looks horrendous you're not getting the girl.

Lets all help each other out, please comment below any sites for clothing or any tips you might have on appearance.

The Do's and Don'ts on a First Date

       A first date is crucial to every relationship. One wrong move and you'll be nothing more than a date from hell story she'll tell her friends. No worries though. These do's and don'ts should help you finish the date strong and have her excited for date 2.

Location

• DO take her somewhere that is in your price range. Somewhere intimate enough to give you a real opportunity in getting to know her.
• DON'T go somewhere that is loud or crowded. Clubs or bars don't send a good message.
• DO make it exciting! Dinner is great but chances are that won't make you stand out.
• DON'T have it where you live. She'll only think your trying to get her closer to your bed.

Conversation

• DO make it about her. Have her feel like your genuinely interested.
• DON'T go into detail about work. This is a social outing, not the 9:30 meeting.
• DO ask questions. Simply nodding would not make you seem like you care.
• DON'T talk about the past. It's there for a reason, lets keep it that way.

Chivalry 

• DO get off of the car and meet her at the door.
• DON'T text her that you are outside from the car.
• DO open doors, it's old school, but she'll appreciate it.
• DON'T be full of yourself. Put her first.

Follow these tips and she'll be looking forward to your second outing. If you have any other tips or questions, please comment below.

Is there any benefit in being friends with benefits?

Guys, we've all seen movies like  Friends With Benefits starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis that intrigue us into having a special lady friend. A woman who I can be intimate with but won't make me deal with in laws or drama or chick flicks? Psh sign me up! That was my reaction at first but hear me out on this one.

First of all, finding a woman that is willing to cooperate with you on this idea isn't so easy to find. Lets say however, for the purpose of this blog, you get her to agree. How long before one of you falls for the other? As it happened in the movie, too much time spent together will cause feelings to emerge even if you didn't want them too. The chance of a long lasting monogamous relationship to emerge from this situation is hard to find. I'm not going to say its impossible though, friends of mine       started out this way and have been together for almost 4 years now.

Here are the outcomes that can eventually happen though. Either you catch feelings for her and she's just wants to continue being FWB or the vice versa. In that situation someone gets hurt. Or you find someone else that you do want to have a relationship with
not just the physical part and of course the vice versa which will, once again, cause someone to get hurt.

So what's the benefit really? My advice would be to stay away from this title. Just go out dates and have a good time. You wouldn't want too many FWB's anyway, it can hurt your reputation when looking for "The One".

If you have any experience of a personal FWB situation, whether a success story or a failure, please share on a comment below.

5 easy to tips to getting her number

Its natural to want to get a girls number after a good conversation or maybe because you'd like to have calling her as an option. The problem comes when guys start sounding like "Darrel" from MAD TV. Follow these tips and your chances of getting those 10 digits that will telephonically  connect you to her will increase.

1. Be Confident. No woman is attracted to the guy who is unsure of himself. Know that she should want your number and say it with your chest.
2. Don't go Biggie. When you're talking to a girl she wants to have a mutual conversation, not feel like she's being interviewed. Cool it with the what's your name, what's your sign deal. Be real and she'll feel more comfortable. 
3. Read her body language. Eye contact. That's the key. If she's not making eye contact with you chances are she's not interested, bro. 
4. Leave a cliffhanger. If the conversation is going good and you see she's interested, make up an excuse to leave. Then ask for her number to continue the conversation.
5. Give her your number. Don't want to go through rejection? Just give her your number. If you stayed on her mind she'l call, if not be optimistic and think that she lost it. Its a lot better than a big fat no to your face.