Why Cheaters Never Win

Sometimes in a relationship guys decide to cheat, they feel like if they don't get caught who cares. I couldn't disagree more.

If there's a woman that has committed to you, thats something you should appreciate. Don't betray her trust because it can honestly come back to bite you in the ass.

I have to share a story about my buddy related to this particular issue.

He has been with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, no breakups in between. Recently he's been telling me that he wants to fool around with some other girls but obviously needs to be discreet about the whole thing. 

He decided to download an app that was created to meet people around their area. Im not talking about Facebook or anything popular like that, I honestly can't even remember the name but thats besides the point. 

So the genius makes a profile and immediately starts getting requests from all these women. He was going one by one talking to them and his girl had no clue. Perfect plan.

Until one day he got caught, and how was hilarious. His girls mom was recently divorced and looking for guys so she was on the same site and came across his profile! Obviously he got dumped and is regretting cheating in the first place.

Moral of the Story:  Don't Cheat! 

If you're not happy with your girl, talk to her about it. Communication saves relationships, not one- nighters with random ratchet girls.  

The Do's and Don'ts on a First Date

       A first date is crucial to every relationship. One wrong move and you'll be nothing more than a date from hell story she'll tell her friends. No worries though. These do's and don'ts should help you finish the date strong and have her excited for date 2.

Location

• DO take her somewhere that is in your price range. Somewhere intimate enough to give you a real opportunity in getting to know her.
• DON'T go somewhere that is loud or crowded. Clubs or bars don't send a good message.
• DO make it exciting! Dinner is great but chances are that won't make you stand out.
• DON'T have it where you live. She'll only think your trying to get her closer to your bed.

Conversation

• DO make it about her. Have her feel like your genuinely interested.
• DON'T go into detail about work. This is a social outing, not the 9:30 meeting.
• DO ask questions. Simply nodding would not make you seem like you care.
• DON'T talk about the past. It's there for a reason, lets keep it that way.

Chivalry 

• DO get off of the car and meet her at the door.
• DON'T text her that you are outside from the car.
• DO open doors, it's old school, but she'll appreciate it.
• DON'T be full of yourself. Put her first.

Follow these tips and she'll be looking forward to your second outing. If you have any other tips or questions, please comment below.