Why Cheaters Never Win

Sometimes in a relationship guys decide to cheat, they feel like if they don't get caught who cares. I couldn't disagree more.

If there's a woman that has committed to you, thats something you should appreciate. Don't betray her trust because it can honestly come back to bite you in the ass.

I have to share a story about my buddy related to this particular issue.

He has been with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, no breakups in between. Recently he's been telling me that he wants to fool around with some other girls but obviously needs to be discreet about the whole thing. 

He decided to download an app that was created to meet people around their area. Im not talking about Facebook or anything popular like that, I honestly can't even remember the name but thats besides the point. 

So the genius makes a profile and immediately starts getting requests from all these women. He was going one by one talking to them and his girl had no clue. Perfect plan.

Until one day he got caught, and how was hilarious. His girls mom was recently divorced and looking for guys so she was on the same site and came across his profile! Obviously he got dumped and is regretting cheating in the first place.

Moral of the Story:  Don't Cheat! 

If you're not happy with your girl, talk to her about it. Communication saves relationships, not one- nighters with random ratchet girls.  

How to Argue With Women

Guys we've all been there with our women. It's inevitable in a relationship, you're going to argue.
It could be about what to watch on tv, where to go eat, or why haven't you called.

As guys were competitive and want to always be right. It's true. However in order to maintain that woman in your life you need to know how to choose your way of expression, because at the end of night i'm sure we'd like for her to be on good terms with us, if you know what I mean.

We need to realize that a woman's brain functions differently than ours. Our competitive nature when in a argument can bring out the monster in us, just take a breather though. Remember that this is the woman you choose to be with, there is obviously a reason for that.

Here are some tips on how to fight with women:

1. Dont make it about who can be loudest. Just screaming at the top of your lungs is childish and wont accomplish anything. Try to talk like the adults you are.
2. Try to understand her point of view. This is essential to understanding why you're fighting in the first place, maybe the issue could be resolved before it blows out of proportion.
3. Swallow your pride. On occasion and I repeat on occasion, let her win. Trust me she will feel good about herself, and I bet that she'll love the fact that you can admit when you're wrong, even when you're not. 

If you want to read more on this topic check out this article by relationship correspondant Lawrence Mitchell from AskMen.com

Fighting With Your Woman The Right Way

Watch this hilarious video of what Kevin Hart does when arguing with his woman.

Should you try to pick up women at the gym?

Yes.

The answer will always be yes.

However be careful my friends, this is the sort of thing that needs to be accomplished in a very strategic manner because women are quick to see men that start a conversation at the gym as pigs. Don't be that guy.

First thing, look the part. No woman would ever take a guy that's wearing Rocky sweatpants and their high school t-shirt than looks like its been used to wash cars seriously. Get yourself some Under Armour or Nike gear, the more legit you look the better.

It is EXTREMELY important to not seem desperate. I don't care if its Adriana Lima, make sure you put your tongue back in your mouth, and show that fitness is the reason you are there.

I once read an article by Egan Liabetto on this very issue and I must say that the man is a genius.

It was called A Gentlemen's Guide to Picking Up Girls At The Gym.  In the article he gave the 7 Commandments of gym pickup, these are the two I find the most important.

1. Thou shall not target the obnoxious attention whores.
  Its so true. These women usually have the skimpiest clothing on and are looking to reject every guy that approaches her, don't fall for it.

2. Thou shall be prepared to lead the interaction.
 I couldn't agree more. Every girl likes when a man takes the lead. Have some initiative and keep the conversation going.

When it comes to hitting on girls at the gym, go for it. Just be sure to not come off as a creep.

For the complete article click on the link below, trust me you need to know this
http://spotmebro.com/a-gentlemens-guide-to-picking-up-girls-at-the-gym/

Please feel free to comment below your opinion, or any tips you might have. Lets help each other out.

Looking Fresh to Impress

Guys, this issue is something that is obvious but goes overlooked so frequently and can cause damage to your game with women. Its being fresh. Yeah thats a no brainer right? Some guys forget and look  like a joke and then wonder why they never get any women.

Its easy. Make sure that you are yourself but make sure that you look good. All ladies love guys with three qualities. Smell good, be well groomed, and dress well.

Here are a couple links that will help you gain and maintain a good appearance.

The links below are blogs all about mens fashion

http://www.dapperlou.com/
http://tsbmen.com/

This next link is to Nordstrom all about mens cologne and grooming.

http://shop.nordstrom.com/c/cologne?origin=fashionresultspreview

The point i'm trying to get across is simple, no matter if you're a great guy on the inside, if your appearance looks horrendous you're not getting the girl.

Lets all help each other out, please comment below any sites for clothing or any tips you might have on appearance.