Why Cheaters Never Win

Sometimes in a relationship guys decide to cheat, they feel like if they don't get caught who cares. I couldn't disagree more.

If there's a woman that has committed to you, thats something you should appreciate. Don't betray her trust because it can honestly come back to bite you in the ass.

I have to share a story about my buddy related to this particular issue.

He has been with his girlfriend for about a year and a half, no breakups in between. Recently he's been telling me that he wants to fool around with some other girls but obviously needs to be discreet about the whole thing. 

He decided to download an app that was created to meet people around their area. Im not talking about Facebook or anything popular like that, I honestly can't even remember the name but thats besides the point. 

So the genius makes a profile and immediately starts getting requests from all these women. He was going one by one talking to them and his girl had no clue. Perfect plan.

Until one day he got caught, and how was hilarious. His girls mom was recently divorced and looking for guys so she was on the same site and came across his profile! Obviously he got dumped and is regretting cheating in the first place.

Moral of the Story:  Don't Cheat! 

If you're not happy with your girl, talk to her about it. Communication saves relationships, not one- nighters with random ratchet girls.  

How to Argue With Women

Guys we've all been there with our women. It's inevitable in a relationship, you're going to argue.
It could be about what to watch on tv, where to go eat, or why haven't you called.

As guys were competitive and want to always be right. It's true. However in order to maintain that woman in your life you need to know how to choose your way of expression, because at the end of night i'm sure we'd like for her to be on good terms with us, if you know what I mean.

We need to realize that a woman's brain functions differently than ours. Our competitive nature when in a argument can bring out the monster in us, just take a breather though. Remember that this is the woman you choose to be with, there is obviously a reason for that.

Here are some tips on how to fight with women:

1. Dont make it about who can be loudest. Just screaming at the top of your lungs is childish and wont accomplish anything. Try to talk like the adults you are.
2. Try to understand her point of view. This is essential to understanding why you're fighting in the first place, maybe the issue could be resolved before it blows out of proportion.
3. Swallow your pride. On occasion and I repeat on occasion, let her win. Trust me she will feel good about herself, and I bet that she'll love the fact that you can admit when you're wrong, even when you're not. 

If you want to read more on this topic check out this article by relationship correspondant Lawrence Mitchell from AskMen.com

Fighting With Your Woman The Right Way

Watch this hilarious video of what Kevin Hart does when arguing with his woman.

Is there any benefit in being friends with benefits?

Guys, we've all seen movies like  Friends With Benefits starring Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis that intrigue us into having a special lady friend. A woman who I can be intimate with but won't make me deal with in laws or drama or chick flicks? Psh sign me up! That was my reaction at first but hear me out on this one.

First of all, finding a woman that is willing to cooperate with you on this idea isn't so easy to find. Lets say however, for the purpose of this blog, you get her to agree. How long before one of you falls for the other? As it happened in the movie, too much time spent together will cause feelings to emerge even if you didn't want them too. The chance of a long lasting monogamous relationship to emerge from this situation is hard to find. I'm not going to say its impossible though, friends of mine       started out this way and have been together for almost 4 years now.

Here are the outcomes that can eventually happen though. Either you catch feelings for her and she's just wants to continue being FWB or the vice versa. In that situation someone gets hurt. Or you find someone else that you do want to have a relationship with
not just the physical part and of course the vice versa which will, once again, cause someone to get hurt.

So what's the benefit really? My advice would be to stay away from this title. Just go out dates and have a good time. You wouldn't want too many FWB's anyway, it can hurt your reputation when looking for "The One".

If you have any experience of a personal FWB situation, whether a success story or a failure, please share on a comment below.